YOU'RE AN INTELLIGENT WOMEN OF GOD WHO'S
Hi, I’m Certified Life & Sexuality Coach OEV (Octavia E Vance) and for the past 8 years I’ve been helping intelligent women of faith who are sexually frustrated, embrace their sexuality while living for God.
THE CHURCH IS TELLING YOU TO PRESS THROUGH, PRAY AWAY THE HORNY, WAIT TILL MARRIAGE YET YOU'RE GETTING OLDER, STRUGGLING IN CELIBACY OR CONTINUALLY STARTING CELIBACY OVER AND OVER, JUST TO FALL AGAIN AND AGAIN AND CONTINUE IN A CYCLE OF SEXUAL FRUSTRATION. AND NO ONE'S TELLING YOU HOW TO BE SEXUALLY LIBERATED WHILE STILL LIVING A LIFE PLEASING TO GOD!
Listen...I understand because that was ME!
And yes, we ended up having some beautifully and wonderfully made kids…a lota kids at that… 😉
But it wasn’t until after having our 3rd child that I got my sexual liberation. Here I was…an intelligent woman, a lover of God, a helpful wife, an amazing Mom with some amazing kids, YET my sexual liberation didn’t come until AFTER having children. NOT before I was married. Not after I was married. But AFTER I had multiple children. Why was that? Because I too, just like many of you, believed the erroneous teachings I’d heard while single that kept me sexually frustrated even years into marriage and after having kids. And that showed me that many times…
Sexually Frustrated Single Women often turn into Sexually Frustrated Married Women.
How do I know this? Not only because I was one but also because that’s where I started in my beginning stages of working towards being a Sex Coach 8 years ago. So many wives were reaching out to me about their sexual frustration that I first started 1 on 1 counsel sessions with sexually frustrated ladies both married & single. Then I started a small group for Nigerian wives to help in sexually liberating them. So that led to me into personal coaching for wives. I then created a sex workshop for wives and helped them to have better sex in their marriages in 2016. But the emails from sexually frustrated single women kept coming. So I began answering each of their emails each day and I noticed many of them with the same sexual issues with the same root…religious sexual repression. Something I also noticed in sexually frustrated wives.
MARRIAGE DOES NOT CURE SEXUAL FRUSTRATION.
Embracing your sexuality however, does. And yet that’s the thing. Who’s teaching intelligent Women of Faith how to embrace their sexuality while single? Who’s showing single women they can embrace their sexuality and still be a Woman of The Most High God? Who’s telling single women that they do not have to be sexually frustrated thinking that marriage will automatically end their sexual frustration only to find out later that it doesn’t. Or better yet, who’s helping single women understand what embracing their sexuality even is?
Get these questions and more answered.
Single Ladies are tired of being told to “wait and pray” when it comes to all things sexual, yet no one is telling them how to deal with their sexual frustration while living for God. And what’s worse, hardly anyone in their churches even acknowledge that single ladies get sexually frustrated in the first place.
And this is why there's so much struggle for the single, saved and sexually frustrated woman of faith.
Her struggles with sexuality are often times overlooked, undervalued and underemphasized. Most times she’s told to cast down her “sexually impure” thoughts and bring them under the subjection to Christ. And how does one do that? By praying? Fasting? And reading the bible right? But why after continually doing this her sexual frustration often intensifies?
It’s because too many are downplaying that women feeling sexual is NATURAL and to be EMBRACED not shunned.
WHAT IF I TOLD YOU...
...you don't have to "endure" sexual frustration just because you're Single.
Sexual frustration does NOT have to be "your cross to bear" just because you're not married yet.
...you don't have to "suppress" your sexual feelings until marriage.
Self Control (not "People Control") can help with channeling sexual feelings, not suppress them.
...you can embrace your sexuality and still be a Woman of Faith.
Sexuality does NOT have to be sacrificed or shunned in order to be "pure".
CAN YOU PICTURE THIS KINDA LIFE IN THE FUTURE?
HOW ABOUT FRAMING THE PICTURE OF THIS KINDA LIFE IN THE NOW?
Listen, AS A CERTIFIED LIFE & SEXUALITY COACH, I'VE COUNSELED COUNTLESS OF WOMEN WHO "WERE" SEXUALLY FRUSTRATED JUST LIKE YOU.
In the beginning I did these sessions one on one. Then I created a small group for wives who were sexually frustrated. I then took the main frustrations of those wives and constructed my first workshop for wives on how to have better sex even tho many were in Christian marriages where sex and sexual issues were still taboo. Then by many requests, I formed a membership site for single ladies who wanted to learn more about sex and their sexuality while single.
You’ve been frustrated too long. Now it’s time to get your liberation Boo.
WHERE FRUSTRATION ENDS, LIBERATION BEGINS!
REVELATION, RELEASE AND RELIEF FOR THE WOMAN WHO'S READY TO EXPRESS HER GOD GIVEN SEXUALITY WITHOUT CONDEMNATION, ACCUSATION AND FRUSTRATION.
A 90 DAY UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL MENTORSHIP WITH OEV
I've created this 3 mo program particularly for the intelligent single woman of faith who yearns to...
This program was created just for you.
Are you ready to fully embrace your sexuality while still living for God?
WOMEN SIGN UP TO WORK WITH ME WHEN They're...
Don't believe me? Check them receipts below and see what ladies are saying about working with me.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE TO BE SEXUALLY FREE!
“You’ve been to church after church, altar call after altar call, facebook group after facebook group trying to get help with your frustration and yet you are STILL sexually frustrated. Why? Because mainly your frustration isn’t being addressed up closely, intimately and personally. And this issue IS personal. This is you, your well being and yes, your very life. And that’s part of the problem isn’t it? Too many down play sex(uality) especially for the saved single woman because “you’re not even supposed to be thinking about anything sexual until you’re married” right? So you’re often times put off by all of those places mentioned above when it comes to sex because they focus on giving you the generalized solution and not the the specialized solution that fits YOUR FRUSTRATION and not the masses.
They don’t know your background, your trials, your setbacks, your details etc, so how can they give you the up close and personal feedback you need in order to get to your liberation? And part of the reason they don’t know all this is because you haven’t told them what you’re really dealing with. And why is that? Because of constantly being in the atmosphere of the overly judging, the super religifying and the always condemning. It can be extremely hard to get in front of others and just ‘bear all’ without fear of unrighteous judgement or religious condemnation under the guise of rebuke and correction.
And that is one main reason I created this mentorship program…so that sexually frustrated women of God can get that up close, intimate and personal mentoring with someone who’s been there, who’s not afraid to share and who’s liberated enough to take you from “frustration 2 Liberation“!
FROM THOSE JUST LIKE YOU
AFTER MENTORING WITH OEV YOU WILL:
AND YOU WILL FINALLY BE ABLE TO PROCLAIM THAT YOU'VE GONE from...
FRUSTRATION 2 LIBERATION
This is what you really want, Sis. And you need someone who can help you get these results right? So..